feat: overwrite query key on trpc.useQuery options

Problem

Describe the feature you'd like to request I have query procedure `listPosts` which accepts some generic `parameters` and and optional `lastUpdatedAt` timestamp. The query key looks something like this: [code block] This query is expensive, so I cache it also on the server with the given `parameters` as caching key in case multiple clients request the same data. When I receive the same `parameters` on the server, I return the data from the cache. Now I need some way for clients to force a refresh on the server returning new data instead of cached data for the same `parameters`. So in this case, I query the `listPosts` with an optional `lastUpdatedAt` timestamp. The query key is now: [code block] The servers receives the same `parameters` as before and finds the data in the cache, but the `lastUpdatedAt` timestamp is greater than the cached timestamp. So it runs the expensive operation on the server and returns the new data (and caches it). Now I have two query keys on the client which are logically the same. I must update the query data of key 1 and key 2 with new data, because query key 2 is only temporary to trigger a server cache-invalidation. The `lastUpdatedAt` that I sent in query key 2 is a local state that will get lost after page navigation. When I later get back to the `ListPosts` page, it will use query key 1 again with data which was maybe set by query key 2. I'm currently using `onSuccess` of `useQuery` to set the query data of all query keys matching t